A pondering I suppose. It’s a little bit of a small milestone for myself and my girlfriend today.  A Monthiversary.  Yep! that’s what we are calling it for now.

This morning she made me a small but beautiful video about us, celebrating US and showing her love for me. The title…..”To the best partner in the world”.  I have absolutely no problem with that but it got me to thinking, why does everyone nowadays refer to their significant other as their “partner”?   Like I said, I have no problem with it.  I know what I mean to her and she knows what she means to me.

What happened to saying “my wife did this” or my “boyfriend did that”.  Is “Partner the new politically correct way to refer to your better half?

I decided to Google it and found very similar results for the meaning of “Partner”….oh,  and a couple of odd ones.  Looking at the usual dictionaries gave these meanings:

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And

partner

 

And a Thesaurus gave me this

 

thesuarus partner

 

And I also found this little paragraph in the MacMillan Dictionary

partner avoid

I can understand why some people would use the word “partner”, as it’s a gender neutral word when some people don’t feel comfortable revealing too much about their “partner”.

Maybe I’m getting too old hehehe(not!)  or just a bit old fashioned. “Partner” is a word many, many people are using now to announce, for want of a better word their significant other. I hear it all the time at work, men and women alike and I dunno….it’s just not me lol.

For me it’ll always be “Girlfriend” or “Wife”. If someone doesn’t like me saying that…well, bad luck.

Oh!!! and before I forget, I found this gem on ‘The Urban Dictionary”……….

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TOP DEFINITION

Urban altern-a-chicks and Metrosexuals don’t have boyfriends, girlfriends,significant others, husbands, wives, fuck-buddies, etc. They have ‘Partners’.

A ‘Partner’ is very similar to a boyfriend or girlfriend, but is not a boyfriend or girl friend. If you call someone’s ‘Partner’ a ‘boyfriend’ or a ‘girlfriend’, you will be corrected (“no, Callum is my ‘Partner'”).

‘Partners’ have many of the same characteristics as boyfriends and girlfriends (functioning genitalia, heartbeats, annoying habits, feelings, etc…), but also have very distinctive behaviors and physical features:

* ‘Partners’ live in “spaces”, not apartments, homes, houses, pads or places.

* ‘Partners’ sleep and fuck on futons or dirty mattresses on the floor, as opposed to beds.

* ‘Partners’ generally subsist on ‘ethical’ or sustainable diets of Organic vegetables, Free-range meat and fair-trade coffee.

* Often, a male ‘partner’ can be recognized by the presence of frappichino glasses, fashionably-unfashionable clothes, ‘old-man’ or ‘quasi-military’ hats, a deliberately messy hair-do odd facial hair patterns and a generally wimpish and elitist attitude. It is not uncommon for a male ‘partner’ to undergo sympathy cramps while the female partner is menstruating.

* Female ‘partners’ are often distinguished by the accumulation of hair on the legs and arm-pits, but not necessarily the genital area. The female partner usually sports boyish clothes, Retro tees, or DIY skirts and blouses made of discarded towels , curtains or tablecloths. leg warmers would not be out of place here. Hair styles can vary from one similar to the male partner’s deliberate mess, to a Zelda hair-cut. Female ‘Partners’ usually can be found in bars, at a table with 3 or 4 guys, in addition to her ‘partner’ who is quietly sipping his micro-brewed bitter-nut-dark-ale while stewing in jealousy.

* A ‘partner’ is generally chosen on their potential to advance one’s own status in a given scene. A leader of an activist group, a drummer of a post-rock band or the focus of a peer group is generally considered prime ‘partner’ material. Having a good ‘partner’ increases your ability to name-drop, facilitates ladder climbing and makes for a fashionable conversation piece.

* ‘Partners’ frown on dating, as it is an outdated tradition of monogamous courtship. Instead they go on “meetings” at such venues as cheap ethnic restaurants, diners, cultural festivals, downtown parks, wooded areas and their or their ‘partners’ “space“.

* ‘Partners’ can be of great importance one day, and a minor annoyance to be ignored, avoided or kicked to the curb the next. This is because people in ‘partnerships’ generally strive to avoid any commitment or responsibility in a life devoted to the pursue of their own pleasure, and likely have other ‘partners’ lined up, if they’re not fucking them already.

* Although the term ‘partner’ suggests equality in a relationship, this is not the case. The power in the relationship rests with the ‘partner’ that cares less. As one ‘Partner’ loses interest, they become harder and harder to arrange a ‘meeting’ with. leaving the other ‘partner(s)’ confused as to the state of the decaying ‘partnership’ leading to desperation and insecurity.

* The term ‘partner’ is not exclusive to those in monogamous relationships. Often, those choosing open relationships refer to each other as ‘partners’. hence, it is possible for someone to have multiple ‘partners’ and ‘partnerships’. This helps facilitate the spread of STDs amongst bohemian, activist and alternative circles.

* The term ‘Partner’ is not exclusive to straight relationships. In fact, the term has been borrowed (co-opted or colonized… if you will) from the L.G.B.T. community which used the term to denote a participant in a same-sex relationship. Gay people resent straight people who have bastardized and colonized the term, just as black people resent white people who have co-opted hip-hop music.

Metrosexual: “Oh, Charlie’s my partner. We met at the post-rock show at the Alex P. Keaton.”
Me: “Your what?”
Metrosexual: “My Partne—”
*SLAP*
Metrosexual: “Ow! Why are you oppressing me?”
Me: “SHE’S YOUR ‘GIRLFRIEND’! SAY IT!”
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REALLY!!!!!
WHAT THA
I got a good laugh out of that one.
My Ghita will always be my Girlfriend, Wife, Better half, my accomplice hehehe, yeah my partner in crime and it doesn’t matter with whom I’m talking to, that’s what I’ll say.
Til next time
Wookie out
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